Depending on how you approach it, the first day of school for teenagers can be an annual ordeal or an exciting ritual. Here, the experts at ClubMom offer 15 ways to manage school-year expectations and make sure your child is prepared.

• Be ready to grant your child some new privileges. Allowing her to make decisions about her own back-to-school shopping is a good way to show trust in her judgment.
• Survey last year’s wardrobe together and replace items that no longer fit or need to be updated.
• Encourage him to take the lead on shopping for basic school supplies. Remember that his teachers are likely to provide a comprehensive list of “must-haves” once classes begin.
• If you have a home computer, make sure it is ready to be used for schoolwork.
• Schedule an appointment with your child’s doctor for a physical exam, if your school requires one. Remember to bring any school medical forms with you for the doctor to fill out.
• Talk with your child about after-school activities she would like to participate in and make the necessary arrangements.
• If your child has any special needs, notify the school and confirm that acceptable accommodations have been made.
• Familiarize your child and yourself with her new school-year schedule.
• Read through and review school regulations with your child.
• Make sure all school forms have been completed and returned.
• Remind your child to pack his book bag the night before, and try to get him in bed at a reasonable hour.
• On the first day of school, let your child know where you’ll be all day and how to reach you. Go over after-school plans, and be sure to say a cheerful good-bye.
• Do your best to be home when your child returns from school on the first day.
• After school, ask for any notices that may have been sent home and designate a place in the house for school paperwork.
• Talk to your child about first-day impressions, and address all comments and concerns.

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1. Posted 07/27/2009 at 19:38 PM by ChaosLian

   My son is starting high school this year and I am overwhelmed with all the "new" stuff I have to learn! New school, new procedures, new calendar. I hope I make it through the first week! Lian

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